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What is a relationship?
A relationship is that which can reveal to us those dimensions of us that we don’t even know exist inside us. It gives us the experience and shows us that we are also capable of loving someone, it shows that we can love, care and sacrifice to an amazing extent for the sake of someone we love.
We are not aware of many of our dimensions, and the others too do not know of our dimensions. Relationships have the power to awaken our unknown dimensions and make us experience them and show the same to others.

Success in relationships is very difficult if we expect too much from the other person. When each demands fulfilment from the other and that demand is not met, they become enemies. Lasting and fulfilling relationships are only possible through mutual effort and cultivation of love and friendship that is not conditioned by any selfish motivation.
In relationships, we imagine that the other person has what we do not have, and therefore they can give it to us. This is the greatest illusion, a great mistake and misunderstanding. This is the primary reason why so many relationships fail, we imagine that the other is going to supply us with forgiveness, love, compassion, tolerance, mercy, acceptance and peace. We imagine that the other person is going to give us what we cannot give them, or even to ourselves. And then we become angry with the other, with ourselves and bitter with life.

A relationship with anyone or anything, no matter who or what, can lead us to the ultimate relationship with GOD if only, we are willing to destroy our inauthenticity and purify our soul.

Through our relationships, our negative side also gets revealed to us. All our anger, our guilt, our suffering, our low confidence, our hatred, our memory of past suffering- anything which pulls us down and stops us from expressing our peak capacity is inauthenticity.

Our inauthenticities are nothing but our incomplete understanding of ourselves and life.When we start looking in, observing our inner space, all our inauthenticities start boiling!

When we start looking in, observing our inner space, all our inauthenticities start boiling!

But, when the boiling and churning is happening, we should stand up and face it.

Not only will the problems come up…

If we pay attention, we will find the solutions too!

 

 

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